Family Games That Bring Everyone to the Table

Family Games That Bring Everyone to the Table


When you have younger kids, or kids with a wider age gap, finding the perfect game to play as a family can be a little bit challenging. But it's possible! Today I am going to share with you the best family games to play with kids of all ages. These games we've played with my daughter when she was as young as three or four (with a few modifications). By the times she was five/six/seven she was able to join in as a regular player that could pretty much play the whole game as an individual. I also love these games because they are fun to play as an adult too. I'll start with my very favorite games, but know that if my child picked any of these games for a family game night, I'd be happy with their selection.


Silly Street | This game is one of my favorites to play as a family and is truly perfect for all ages. To play you puzzle together a large game board. The objective is to move your piece across the game board to the end. You do this by choosing cards that will give you a silly task to complete, things like "sing twinkle twinkle little star in a very high voice," "tell a silly story about a giraffe with a balloon," or "find an object in the room that you can wear as a hat." There are also nice challenges like having everyone go around in the circle as say something they like about the person to their right. At the end of the game the winner gets to choose a song and everyone dances to it together. Overall it's a super high vibe experience and a game that always contains a lot of laughter and silliness.


Sequence | I love playing this game as an adult and I think it is pretty easy to let kids play it too. To play you have five cards in your hand and a board with all the cards pictured on it. On your turn you play a card from your hand and put your colored tile on the same card on the board. There are two options for each card. The objective is to get 5 tiles in a row, twice. Once you get five in a row you have a sequence. This game is fun as an adult because you are trying to strategize which cards to play where to get the best chance at a sequence. This game works for kids because they can simply choose any card and play it anywhere and still win in the end. I'm not kidding my three year old won the game the first time we let her play with us. Maybe with younger kids you would want to shorten the game to one sequence, but if they have a good attention span, this is a great game to let them be a part of. 
*There is also a specific Sequence board game for kids if that seems like a better fit for your family.


Cranium | I loved playing cranium as a kid and so when we got it for our family I had high hopes even though I didn't exactly remember how to play. Well my hopes were realized and it has been so fun to play as a family. I believe the idea is to play in teams which we sometimes do, but we have also played as a family. To play the game one person rolls a colored dice and then draws a card. They have to accomplish the activity on the card that matches the color of their roll. It can be a trivia question, acting something out, drawing a picture with your eyes closed, making something out of clay, etc. You work as a team or with the whole family to complete the activity. If you can do it in the right amount of time, you get to move on a board. First one to the finish wins. It is a game that fosters a lot of creativity and is very fun because you are pretty much constantly doing new activities. It get's you working together and I would say that with a bit of flexibility or some slight modifications, your youngest could find a way to participate as well.


Gnoming Around | We got this game for Christmas one year and then promptly spent the month of January playing it almost every night. It is so fun and even our youngest daughter would join in for a round or two when she was 4-5. Basically you have nine cards face down and you spend the game flipping them over. You want to get the least amount of points (negative points) like in golf. Some cards give you negative points but you can also get negative points by getting three of the same cards in a row. It's a pretty simple game which makes it perfect for family, but also takes some strategy and forward thinking. And sometimes you get really lucky as well. We talked our youngest through the strategy of the game the first few times she played and now she can handle a full on game on her own (she only needs help tallying up her score). Anyways we are big fans of this game over here so I would definitely recommend.


Taco Cat Goat Cheese Pizza and Moose Match Mayhem | Made by the same creators, our family loves both of these card games. They are super simple to play and have some silly twists that keep everyone laughing. Both games have been easily picked up by our younger kids and seem easy enough for them to play along. We also recently just got the game Bing Bang Boom from the same creators and it is also a hit in our family. If your looking for a quick card game, these are good options. We also love them cause they are easy to pack along for family vacations or camping trips.


Dixit Disney Edition | We love playing the original Dixit game but I think we love the Disney edition even more. This game is more fun with the full six players but we love playing it as a family of four as well. Basically everyone has cards in their hand that have really detailed and intricate pictures on them. One person chooses a card and tries to give a pretty general one word or short phrase clue about their card. Everyone else tries to pick a card that would match that word. They are secretly shuffled and then laid out and everyone votes on what card they think is the original card. If you are the original clue giver you want some people to choose your card but not everyone. Everyone else gets more points if people choose their card. Overall it's a very fun game that sparks creativity and requires some thoughtful imagination.



Hues and Cues | I'm super biased because I love this game so much. It's a big board with a lot of colors. Each round someone gets a color from the board and then they gives a one word clue to try to get players to put their pieces on or close to that color. Then they get a two word clue. Everyone can get points if they can get their guesses close enough to the right color. It's challenging to think of the right words, but a very simple game to pick up. It can be really exciting when everyone is on the same wavelength and kind of funny when people are not.


Clue Junior | I really love solving a mystery games, and this one is just better for kids. Much like the original game you are trying to solve who, what, and where but this time for kids. The big question is who set off the volcano with what ingredients when they were suppose to be in which class? My kids have liked playing as well. As a bonus on the other side of the game board is a cooperative mystery game where you are trying to figure out who took something from the playground and what they took. It's a fun game for even younger kids.


Ticket to Ride First Journey | The original Ticket to Ride game is so fun to play, but can be pretty long and get kind of intense. This kids version has the same fun made much easier and shorter, so you can play with kids. Like ticket to ride you are trying to connect cities by train and you get points for all the connections you can make. It's a great game to play to kind of have or gain some foundational board game savvy.


Eye Found It Disney Hidden Picture Game | This is a fun cooperative game where everyone is trying to make it to the end of the game board before the clock strikes midnight. You can move when you spin and get a certain number, or you might land on a red or blue space. If you do that you pick a card and everyone tries to find as many of that cards items on the board. For example you might pick an Apple Card, then everyone gets to search the board for a minute. If you find 8 apples everyone gets to move 8 spaces. It's a really great game to play together and it's kind of fun to have a game where you win if everyone wins.

There you go, 11 games I think are perfect for families with young kids and older kids as well. Games that can truly bring everyone to the table and allow everyone to participate. Below I'll give a few quick honorable mentions for games that are more geared towards a younger audience, but let me know in the comments if there are any board or card games you love to play with your family!

Outfoxed | A Cooperative Whodunnit Mystery Game

Enchanted Cupcake Party | Who doesn't want to create princess inspired cupcakes!

Connect 4 | Classic, Simple, Fun, Quick

Don't Break the Ice | Memorable Childhood Game

Pengoloo | A cute and simple matching game.

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How to Start a Book Club | Plus 8 Book Recommendations

How to Start a Book Club | Plus 8 Book Recommendations


Have you ever wanted to start a book club. While it might feel like a big ask, starting a book club can be super simple and work out quite naturally with the right group. Six years ago I got the book Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer and began reading it. Within the first few chapters I thought of a few family members that I thought would really enjoy the book as well. I texted a picture of the cover of the book and simply asked "would anyone want to read this book with me?" The response was positive and we started scheduling dates we could meet via FaceTime and the chapters we wanted to read by each date.

We didn't know this was the beginning of a book club that has lasted six years, or that we would read 50+ books and counting, we just started reading one book together. We enjoyed gathering together and our discussions so much, it was natural for us to want to read and discuss another book once we finished our first one. And so our book club was formed.

I'll be honest with you, most of the time an idea like creating a book club wouldn't pan out for me, because it feels like a big task. Finding the right people, being able to meet consistently, choosing books everyone would enjoy, creating a space people want to come back to... well that feels completely overwhelming and just the thought of trying to do all of that is enough to stop me before I even give it a whirl. But texting a few people I am close to and asking if they want to read one book with me? Well that's doable, casual, easy even. And it's all I had to do to create a book club that has been really meaningful.

And maybe sending the text doesn't pan out into a full fledged bi weekly book club that lasts years, but maybe you find a few friends to read a good book with and deepen your connection points. That's a win too. 

Like I said, our book club began with reading Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer, and while I think it is a perfect book to read and discuss, here are 8 books I have especially enjoyed reading with my book club, and I think they would each be a perfect book to text to a friend or a few and ask "would anyone want to read this book with me?"


Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer - Yes I have to start with this book. First it is one of the best books I have ever read in my life. Her writing is absolutely gorgeous and feels so cozy and loving. The topics she discusses as an Indigenous Woman and botanist are incredibly interesting, insightful, and make a lot of space for reflection. It is the perfect book to read with others because the discussion that can be created from this book is just so rich. I would suggest taking it slow, just a few chapters at a time. In my opinion this book is perfect for a book club and everyone should read it.


How to Keep House While Drowning by KC Davis - This books was interesting because we invited our significant others to read the book with us and join in the discussion. I've read a lot of books over the years that give tips and tricks and plans of how to make your life function better, but this book was truly the best I have ever read. It is super concise, gets right to the point, and the tips are not things like make your bed first thing in the morning, they are more centered on finding ways to accomplish the tasks you need to accomplish in ways that actually work for you. It's not about creating a perfect, aesthetically pleasing system, it's about creating a system that functions in your life. And it has a lot of creative and thoughtful ways you can do that. Honestly it was a great book that made a difference in my life and how I do things but also the way I think about the things I do. On top of that it was a really good book to discuss and see what others took away from their reading.


Fire Keepers Daughter by Angeline Boulley - I'll be honest it's been a minute since I read this book, but I remember really enjoying it. This fiction book was simply a fun read with a bit of a love story and a bit of a mystery. It integrated some indigenous practices from the perspective of the main character into the story, and I felt like I learned a lot from simply witnessing how the main character moved through the world. Honestly this was just a really good book and I would recommend it if you are looking for a good story to discuss.


The Unselected Journals of Emma M. Lion by Beth Brower - Maybe it's because I am a little nosy, but I love reading a book that is journal entries or pages from a diary. Reading a journal can feel like getting a real look into someones truest thoughts and experiences. Everyone really loved reading this first volume of the journal entries for Emma M. Lion, and I believe it has also become quite the hit in the wider world. It's a fun quick read and lovely discussion and as a bonus there are more volumes for continued reading if you especially enjoyed it.


Phoebe's Diary by Phoebe Wahl - Another diary this time following a more modern girl as she navigates high school. I absolutely loved reading this book, it felt very nostalgic to me and brought up a lot of my own high school memories (for better or for worse). I always love a book that really resonates with my own human experience, it's always nice to know that the things you go through in life end up being pretty universal experiences and not something that you solely went through alone because you're a weird person who just hasn't figured out how to do life right. This was a fun discussion book as people shared some of their own high school stories. It also felt like a good book to get to know each other in a new and different way as people were willing to share which parts of the book resonated with them.


The Serviceberry - Abundance and Reciprocity in the Natural World by Robin Wall Kimmerer - Another book by Robin Wall Kimmerer, but believe me this one is worth reading as well. This book is a lot shorter than Braiding Sweetgrass so it could be a good book to introduce you to her words and writing style to see if you resonate with her. Robin is so good at discussing complex human problems and better ways to do things and make it feel achievable while recognizing the greater forces and systems that we are required to live in and do the work in. She gives hope while acknowledging reality. It's a great read and a great discussion.


The Women by Kristin Hannah - This was a great historical fiction novel that followed a woman who served as a medic during the Vietnam war. It really brought to life the horrors of the war and living with those experiences in the aftermath. I felt like this book painted such a vivid portrait about the realities of war and the people who went through it as well as considering what it was like coming home and living among people who had no idea how to even conceptualize what they just went through. It was a super interesting book that was a great read and great discussion. 


 Kaikeyi by Vaishnavi Patel - This was another truly fascinating, well-written book that had me captivated the whole way through. Kaikeyi is a character from the Ramayana and was simply a retelling of her story from a new perspective. This book allowed me to participate in a story and mythology I likely wouldn't have happened upon on my own, and it was just really interesting to read. I definitely recommend this book, and reading it with others is a great way to learn something new and gain new perspectives and knowledge about a topic that might be new to you.

There you go. Those 8 books were universally loved by my book group and I think any of them would be a great first book to read if you want to start a book group of your own. Here are a few more honorable mentions of books I really enjoyed reading and would maybe be interesting for you to read as well.

James by Percival Everett - Thought Provoking, Historical

Hamnet by Maggie O'Farrell - The Power of a Woman




The Good Sister by Sally Hepworth - Plot Twist and a Little Spooky


The Library Book by Susan Orlean - Arson at a Public Library

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Books to Be Thankful For | My Favorite Thanksgiving Reads

Books to Be Thankful For | My Favorite Thanksgiving Reads


It's November so it's time to pull out the my very favorite Thanksgiving books! Here is a list of my very favorite Thanksgiving books to read with my kids in a very particular order. I'll start with my very favorite books and share the books I would definitely recommend you get as part of your library!


Twas the Night Before Thanksgiving is a book I remember loving when I was a little girl. I have such a specific memory of reading it and thinking it was the funniest book. Now I love sharing it with my kids. It has such good rhythm and is so easy to read aloud. It follows a group of school kids as they take a field trip to a turkey farm the day before thanksgiving. As they learn about the fate of the turkeys, they take matters into their own hands.


A Turkey for Thanksgiving is such a lovely book that follows a moose who is searching for a turkey for thanksgiving and all of the friends that he picks up along the way. It's about gathering and friendship and coming together to celebrate and give thanks. I love it!


Franklin's Thanksgiving is just so sweet. I love the Franklin stories, the illustrations, the writing, the community, the cute woodland animals, it's all comes together to create a beautiful book to share! Follow along the characters as they prepare for a unique Thanksgiving without family and how they find friends to share it with along the way.


Sharing the Bread is a cute story about preparing the Thanksgiving dinner as a family and how everyone has a part to play in coming together to make a meal to share. I love the illustrations and the rhyme in reading it. Would definitely recommend.


Thanksgiving in the Woods is a cute story about a community and family tradition of taking their Thanksgiving dinner to a special spot in the woods. The illustrations are beautiful, and I love the storyline showing how Thanksgiving can be whatever you want it to be.


Thanks for Thanksgiving is a book about gratitude. It's a great book to start a conversation about all the things we can be thankful for, not just during thanksgiving but throughout the year.


Cranberry Thanksgiving is a fun old fashioned book. It was written in 1971 and gives the old fashioned vibes. While the storyline isn't my very favorite, the characters, the illustrations, and the vibes are fun and it adds interest to our bookshelf.


Thank You Sarah is kind of cool historical story about how Thanksgiving was going to be a little lost, but this women Sarah thought it was important and did her part to make sure that we continued to have a day to come together and give thanks for what we have. It's a unique book and I like to revisit it each year.

There you go. My favorite Thanksgiving books! What are some of your favorite Thanksgiving books? I'd love to know in the comments below!

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 Super Simple Candy Corn Crocheted Scrunchies

Super Simple Candy Corn Crocheted Scrunchies


It's Halloween. Let's crochet a super simple Candy Corn Scrunchie that is easy enough for beginners and can be worked up quickly. It takes just a few simple supplies you might already have around. Let's get right to the pattern, shall we?


Supplies:
Loops and Thread Posh Purl Yarn in White, Sherbet Glow, and Lemon. (This yarn a bulky, weight 5 yarn that is super soft).



Instructions:
Begin with White Yarn
Foundation Row | 32 SC around Hair Tie. Join last SC & first SC with a slip stitch to close the row.
(You may need a few more SC depending on elastic size and personal tension, you want the elastic to be fully covered). 
Row 2 | Change Colors to Orange (Sherbet Glow). 
Chain 2. 3 HDC in each SC stitch from round one. (96 HDC). Join last HDC & first HDC with a slip stitch to close the row.
Row 3 | Change Colors to Yellow (Lemon). 
Chain 1. SC all around (96 SC).  Join last SC & first SC with a slip stitch to close the row.


You are going to be left with a scrunchie with a bunch of loose ends. Go ahead and tie them off and sew them in. And there you have it, the cutest candy corn scrunchie!


Thanks for joining me on this fun Halloween Craft Project. I hope you will follow along for more crochet projects. Feel free to comment any questions or other fun crochet recommendations. Crocheting for holidays is my favorite!

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13 Halloween Books So Fun, Your Kids Will Forget About Candy (Almost)

13 Halloween Books So Fun, Your Kids Will Forget About Candy (Almost)


It's October, which means it's time to pull out my favorite Halloween Books to read with my kids. We love to gather in our living room each night with all of our decorations and spooky lights and read together. We have gathered quite the collection over the years, and checked out lots of spooky stories from the library, but this a collection of my absolute favorites. I hope you love sharing them with your kids, as much as I do. 


Sandra Boynton always comes through with the cutest stories for the youngest readers. I've been reading these books with my kids since they were young. They are fun, playful, silly, simple, perfect for reading with the babies and toddlers but they hold up as kids grow. 
EEK! Halloween and Spooky Pookie are perfect books to read again and again.


Duck & Goose Find A Pumpkin is the another perfect book for the youngest of readers. This large board book has colorful pictures and a silly simple story. I love the characters and that they are part of a larger series, so they can return to Duck and Goose throughout the year.


I love all of the Little Blue Truck Books and Little Blue Truck's Halloween is no exception. It is such a cute story of friends gathering for a Halloween party and each one having and unique a fun costume. Kids get to guess who is wearing each costume through cute rhymes. This is for sure one to have a permanent place on your shelf.


Slumberkins books are incredible books that take fun characters and sweet stories and weave in concepts that teach emotional intelligence. 

The Costume Comeback at the Monster Ball is a fun story about a friend that chooses a costume on Halloween night, but then sees all the other friends costumes and isn't sure if theirs is good enough anymore. In the end the lesson is about everyone being unique and that makes life great. 

Halloween Fright is about how it is natural to be a little scared sometimes, especially about things we don't know about, but if we take time to learn, maybe things that we are afraid of aren't really all that scary after all.


Little Witch's Big Night is a Halloween story that I remember reading as a kid, so it is really nostalgic to me. It's about a Witch who takes three Trick or Treaters on a Halloween Night ride on her broom. It is such a cute story and has that old school Halloween vibe.


Big Pumpkin is another old school story. Written in 1995 this story follows a Witch that wants to make pumpkin pie on Halloween night. Unfortunately the pumpkin is stuck on the vine, so friends gather to help her. It is a cute story about working together and friendship, and it is absolutely a delight to read-aloud.


Pick a Pumpkin is a newer book that is really cute. From the unique illustration to the simple semi-rhyming text, this story takes you on the adventure of picking out the perfect pumpkin to carve on Halloween night.


Room on the Broom is another rhyming adventure about a Witch that is flying around and the friends that help her out along the way. It teaches kids that if you are kind and make space for those around you they may come back to help you in your time of need.


Franklin is such a childhood favorite of mine. The vibes of Franklin are kindness, cozy, friendship, small town. Franklin's Halloween has all of the aspects of the perfect Halloween book, dressing up, a community Halloween party, a spooky mystery, and being generous with the good things you get.


The Berenstain Bears Trick or Treat is my absolute favorite Berenstain Bears Book. Having the perfect costume, going trick or treating with friends, getting caught up in the spookiness of the night, and learning that things are not always what they seem, it's the perfect book. As a kid when I read this book, I would also just stare at the candy apples in the illustrations. Nothing looked better to me, they were absolutely perfect and I wanted one so bad. I can still feel that longing.


Finally Too Many Pumpkins. I'll admit that this book is long, so you definitely need your child to have a little bit of an extra attention span, but it's such a good story. An older woman that hate pumpkins, accidentally grows too many pumpkins and must find a way to share them with the community. 

And that's that. 13 Perfect Halloween Books to share with the kids you love. I hope you can find a new favorite and please share with me in the comments books I need to add to my collection.

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Autumn is Here

Autumn is Here


Yesterday was the first day of Fall and let me tell you I can smell it. I was visiting someone at their home yesterday and the minute I opened the door of my car the scent of fall came over me. I was further invited into this season when I stepped out of the car and crunched through the leaves that had rained down from their enormous tree. The air was crisp with a perfect coolness. As someone who gets too hot and too cold pretty easily I live for these days that you can step outside with a t-shirt and jeans and feel perfectly comfortable. Every year I am reminded that this is my favorite season.


In other news I've been hearing a lot of people talk about subliminals over the past couple of months. A subliminal is a message hidden in a piece of media and the idea is that this hidden message conveys information straight to the subconscious mind. Our brain perceives these messages without processing them consciously. Honestly... it's a little spooky woo woo to me. Like this could definitely be used for good or evil... right. Nevertheless I persist. Lots of people recommend High Frequency Guru whose claim is that they create subliminal messages with positive affirmations that are hidden under a layer of music or natural sounds. 

In my quest so far I have felt fine with all the subliminals I have listened to on their channel and have found that they generally help me quiet my mind, especially when I am trying to sleep or need to focus. My brain loves to jump from one thought to another completely unrelated thought and can often get stuck in loops, I'm sure I'm not alone in this. So sometimes I find a subliminal so my brain can just be still for a moment. 

Today I was listening to one titled Everything Has Shifted In Your Favor And You Can Feel It and the experience was what I imagine it would be like if you could take your brain and put it the cycle of a dishwasher, car wash, or washing machine. The water sounds moved from side to side and I couldn't help but imagine my brain being rinsed over and over again. I loved it, so I guess this is a recommendation. 

Autumn is a great time to slow down a bit from the summer rush. It time to take walks and focus on crunching the leaves and observing the changing colors and breathing deep. And as an added bonus you might also like to take a minute to listen to a subliminal and experience the feeling of a brain wash.
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Sweeping off the Cobwebs

Sweeping off the Cobwebs


The astrology girlies have come across my feeds and made it known to me that some sort of eclipse happened this weekend. That paired with another eclipse earlier in the month has made this time ultra special in various ways. I don't pretend to know exactly what's going on in our galaxy with the positions of the sun, moon, and planets, but I love to make a change in the same time sky events are taking place. I figure if I want to try something new, and the moon is in a position where it can have my back a little bit, I'll take it.

This month there has been a lot of talk about letting go with the first eclipse of that which no longer serves you in order to make space for the new. I have been creating intentions around these two eclipses about what I am ready to let go of and trying to open myself up for what's next. I am trying to follow my intuition around this and my mind keeps coming back to this blog.

I'll be honest I use to write here quite regularly about my family and kids and our adventures. It was a great place to document life. But alas it is 2025 and putting my kids on the internet in any public sort of way is not the move for me. But I still have this space, a space I wrote occasionally about other things. And is it okay if in 2025 I want to write again like the girls did in 2008-2016 the glory years of blogging. I use to love to just read about what people were reading, places, they were going, the small and simple daily actives they use to share. I miss it, and I want to carve that space out again. 

I don't know if it will succeed in a world where there are a million platforms that exist that are easier to access, places to scroll and scroll. Endless entertainment. But maybe there is still a space for me to write, to share, to be, and maybe the placement of the moon is giving me the go ahead to be in this space where I want to be, and let go of the other spaces that no longer serve me.

So here I am. Mallory Hazel. I love to read, crochet, embroider, eat (mostly) plant based meals, talk about Taylor Swift. I'm a mom a daughter and a wife, but here I am coming back to me, outside of those labels. And I am excited for the ride.

Spent a minute yesterday in nature to ground myself for the eclipse, and found this little flower, its petals folding back into each other creating a heart. It felt like a little love note to me from the universe.

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2.1 | Fearless


 I wonder if you know I'm trying so hard not to get caught up now...

Fearless is one of my favorite Taylor Swift songs, and not just on this album. I love songs that make you feel something deeply, and often connect with the ones that lead me gently to emotions like sadness or pain. But I appreciate that this song unapologetically leads me to joy, fun, and hope. If I want to feel energized, happier, lighter, or just move into those spaces, I can put this song on and I'll be there within four minutes.

This song paints a picture for us of the setting and the emotions. It is a story to fall into. I don't know where our main characters are coming from but they are walking in a parking lot to the car. I'm not sure if the glow off the pavement comes from the sun or the street lights but either way it's freshly rained. There is something about the moment with this person where what they want is to extend an invitation to dance, right there. I can feel it while I listen. The anticipation, the excitement, the nervousness, the desire. We are 30 seconds into a song and I am catapulted back into high school where the feelings of wanting wash over you so easily. 

As she moves through the song she gives us line after line that reinforces that same feeling and the ease with which it can come over you. It's not really something you are trying for or creating, rather it's this magical experience that comes to you and that you get to experience if you are brave enough to lean into it. The most brave thing you can do at this moment is to be so present in it. To give into those feelings where even if your hands are shaking you let the fear move out of you so you can experience the joy. 

I'm not always brave enough in real life. Too often I have been too scared to proceed, but occasionally I have been fearless and those moments always lead to something quite extraordinary. There are moments I would love to return to, to be more brave and daring. While those times are gone, there are still plenty of opportunities to be fearless in the present and future, so for now every once in a while I'll put this song on and practice.

And I don't know how it gets better than this!

I love Taylor Swift’s music and have a deep curiosity about who it is so meaningful to so many people. If you have any thoughts about this song in particular please share it in the comments below so that me and the Swiftie community that finds this space can enjoy your insights. 

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Taylor Swift Fearless Album Overview


Fearless was released in the fall of my senior year of high school. Upon revisiting this album it was incredibly familiar to me (besides the from the vault tracks of course.) It's hard to remember how I knew all the songs. I didn't have the CD, or the album downloaded to my iPod. I have come to the conclusion that Taylor Swift must have been so popular back in the day that I heard all the songs on the radio enough times that 15 years later I can still easily recall them. 

For me Fearless really leans into the fairy tales and the fantasy. It's about being young and believing in whatever world you want to believe in. It is the space before the heartbreak. It's finding your footing and being curious and living in the moments. It's wanting to experience love for the first time. It's full of hope and optimism. And I love leaning into that space. 

It's wanting to experience love for the first time...

I'm going to jump back into these songs one by one over the course of the next few months and talk about what they all mean to me. I invite you to share your insights and what these songs mean to you. At the end of the album we will reconvene and discuss favorite songs, favorite lyrics, how this album ranks and any fun other fun facts we come across. Thanks for joining me and for sharing your voice.

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Taylor Swift's Debut Album Wrap Up


So I just finished listening to the whole album, taking notes, doing a write up for each song individually, and here are a few of my takeaways from this album as a whole.

First I want to address that I went into this album thinking it would just be fun silly vibes, remind me of my high school years, and generally that it would take me back but not mean much to my present self. I was incredibly wrong and very surprised how many of the songs spoke to me 15+ years later. They were empowering and vulnerable and I really really enjoyed diving deep into each song and realizing that themes like being brave and vulnerable and heartbreak and love really stand the test of time. I'm glad I went back here with an open heart because there were some real gems among these 15 songs. I am even more excited for the re-release to see what changes are made and what she adds to this collection.

5 Star Songs - Song that for me are just practically perfect no notes.
1. Tim McGraw
2. A Place in this World
3. I'm Only Me When I'm With You

The Song That Surprised Me the Most
Picture to Burn- This song was just so empowering I absolutely loved it.

Favorite Lyrics
"There's no time for tears I'm just sitting here planning my revenge... so watch me strike a match on all my wasted time."
"I don't know what I want, so don't ask me."
"Love was all you wanted."
"Take me back when our world was one block wide."

Places She Referenced
Georgia

People She Referenced
Tim McGraw, Drew, Cory, Mary

Album Ranking
1. Debut - It's the only album so for now it will hold the number one space :)
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Mallory Hazel
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1.15 | Teardrops on My Guitar (Pop Version)


Drew talks to me. I laugh cause it's just so funny.

I've already done a write up about the song Teardrops on My Guitar and since the pop version has the same lyrics I don't have too much else to add about this song. So instead of talking about what this song means to me I am going to highlight one of my favorite lines in this song. 

Let's set the stage. Taylor is singing along about this boy she loves and she says "Drew talks to me, I laugh cause it's just so funny." The way she says so funny in this song is unironically my favorite part of the song. I absolutely love it and think it is perfect in every way. It's feels right to me and I am thankful she dug deep to give us this treasure. I am very interested to see if she keeps the vibes of that line around for the rerecording. 

Feel free to share below if you agree with me on this hot take or if I'm simply way off and it's too ridiculous.

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Mallory Hazel
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1.14 | A Perfectly Good Heart


Why would you want to make the very first scar?
The first broken heart, the very first scar, it's just a part of being alive in this world. This song was an interesting listen for me. While I would say that I have felt broken-hearted before it's always been a mild case because I really struggle giving myself fully into any relationship. I'm too afraid of being hurt, and if you can keep a little bit of a separation, maybe you can avoid the pain of heartbreak. But I'll be the first to admit when you live life this way you also miss out on the joy of love. The best relationships of my life are the ones that I have been the most vulnerable in. I guess this is all to say that if you have been through real pain from a broken heart, it's likely because you have shown up in this world fully.

Although your heart "is not unbroken anymore," it was also allowed to experience a deep and fearless love. It's kind of the worst that the more you risk for the love the more love you can experience, and on the opposite side the more you risk for love the greater the pain if it doesn't work out. I think when I was younger I was more afraid of the pain, of loving something too much and losing it. I think I have carried that with me even into my adult years, it's so scary to love something so much. It is a practice for me to open myself up to love. To believe it, to seek it, to allow it into me in a real way. 

I know this song is more about someone feeling sad that they are going through heartbreak, but for me, right now, it's a reminder to risk more for love. The love of people and the love of life. While these lyrics said one thing, my listening to them communicated the message I needed. I love this about music. I love that what it means to you personally can change and transform depending on where you are in life and what you need. Even a song written by a teenager 15 years ago can still teach me something about myself years later. What a gift.
It's not unbroken anymore. How do I get it back the way it was before?
I love Taylor Swift’s music and have a deep curiosity about who it is so meaningful to so many people. If you have any thoughts about this song in particular please share it in the comments below so that me and the Swiftie community that finds this space can enjoy your insights.
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Mallory Hazel
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1.13 | Invisible


 Baby let me love you, let me want you.

It's March 2025 and Taylor Swift is an international pop star, global sensation, 11 albums deep into her career, generally about as far from being invisible as you could possibly be. But I think she got to this place by being incredibly vulnerable in her song writing. She has given us the gift of sharing all parts of her and allowed us as listeners to be able to relate.

When I think back to the teen years I think that everyone experienced the feelings of being invisible on some level. There is this idea that if people could just see who you really are that everything would just work out perfectly. In some ways I still hold this thought, that if the people around me could really see me then everything would be okay. Maybe everything would be more than okay, maybe my relationships could be a "beautiful, miracle, unbelievable." It just feels like by now I should have made it to a place where I no longer feel invisible. 

Cultivating meaningful relationships can be tough though. I guess in some ways it's nice to know that even the Taylor Swift knows what that feels like. Like we've really all been through it haven't we. The loneliness of feeling invisible is maybe the hardest part. But in Taylor's very first album she wrote a song that communicates that you are not alone. She said I've been here, and look where she is now. It might feel like a lot but she is a testament that you can get through it and there is more on the other side.

And you just see right through me but if you only knew me, we could be a beautiful miracle, unbelievable, instead of just invisible.

I love Taylor Swift’s music and have a deep curiosity about who it is so meaningful to so many people. If you have any thoughts about this song in particular please share it in the comments below so that me and the Swiftie community that finds this space can enjoy your insights.
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Mallory Hazel
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